Baby Shower For Twins F.A.Q.

Hosting a baby shower is a quite the task, albeit a fun one, perfect for those who thrive on organization. Beyond managing the RSVP list during the planning stages of the event, there always seems to be a bunch of questions from both the host and guests about the gifts, nursery colors, even how the mama-to-be is feeling. Then, compound the questions with all those queries specific to twins!

My article Baby Shower Etiquette answers many commonly asked questions, such as who traditionally hosts the shower, as well as planning tips. Here are a few F.A.Q.s for the twin-spin to help you out.

Q: Do I need to buy gifts for both babies?

A: No. Gifting is entirely up to the giver. Even though the babies are born on the same day, they're not the same person. And, siblings learn to share as they get older. With regard to matching outfits for identical twins, this is a question that the party host should be informed about. Check in with the expectant parents about if they would like pairs or clothes for the babes.

Q: The couple has (tactfully) requested money to help with "big ticket" items like a double stroller, but I really want to give a gift.

A: Again, the gift is coming from you so it is your choice. However, consider that the parents will be buying for two, and the gift of a monetary donation would probably be greatly appreciated. There's always that first time visit to see the babies where you could bring a couple of toys as gifts!

Q: Many twins are born before their due date, should I consider hosting the shower sooner than later?

A: Not a bad idea. Where most showers occur right around 8 months when the mother is radiantly pregnant, you may want to host a shower for twins when the mother is about 6 months pregnant. Of course, check with the expectant parents about the date, registry details, and the like so all are comfortable with the impending plans.