Manage and Enjoy Your Autistic Child's Birthday

Follow these simple tips to get the most out of a birthday party for a child with autism.

• Schedule the Party Time:

Many parents find that their autistic child exhibits more sensitive behavior at certain times of the day. Observe your child's typical behavior pattern and then schedule the birthday celebration that works best with your child's normal routine.

• Prepare Your Child:

One of the most important things to do before the party is speak to your child. Explain the importance of the day to them and why you want to celebrate their birth. Try to include them in the party planning by hand-making invitations with them.

• Guest List:
  

You may want to include your child's friends at his or her party, but its sometimes best to keep it in the family or amongst a smaller group of people they are familiar with and who understand the disorder. This will make them more comfortable and less likely to feel overwhelmed.

• Location:

The best spot for your child's party if they are young is in the home. It's an enviornment they know and feel safe in.

• Set the Mood:

Help your child adjust to the party atmosphere by playing her favorite music in the background. Many autistic children are sensitive to sounds and will respond more calmly to those that help them relax.

• Play a Game:
  

Incorporate activities they like and are familiar with. Autisic children often enjoy the sense of touch in a way others cannot appreciate. If its possible, finger or sponge painting is an activity sure to entertain. Just make sure there is a station set up ahead of time and that your child likes the paint. If you're looking for something a bit simpler, try blowing bubbles of all shapes and sizes.