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This is a great round-up of ideas that are alternatives to traditional party gifts. Also, keep in mind if you are concerned about the amount people will spend on a party gift for your child, it is appropriate to write in your invitation, Gifts under a certain price would be appreciated. Putting a price limit guideline on the invitation can help to keep gift-giving budget friendly.
Host a Book Exchange
Host a book exchange and organize it in a few different ways: Guests bring a wrapped gift and everyone takes one home. Some open the books on the spot; others wait until the kids have gone home.
An Experience of a Lifetime
Give your child an experience rather than a party. If you allow friends to be invited, let the experience be the celebration, not the stuff.
Gifts All around
Hold an inexpensive gift exchange (under $10) so every child receives a gift.
Donate to a Good Cause
Request art supplies and donate them to a shelter.
Request a donation to a great organization.
Contact a charity that is a favorite and ask for a Wish List. For example, As an example, the humane society may need leashes, collars, toys, etc. Request guests bring these items in lieu of birthday gifts to donate and make the wishes come true!
Whatever donations are brought to the party for a favorite charity, have the birthday child deliver the donations to his chosen charity.

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