Jessica Jinn
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And practice some more. When you practice, it is crucial that you practice out loud, at the same volume and rate that you plan to speak during the toast. Do it in a big empty room, and look around the room while you speak as if you're connecting with the other guests with your eyes and speaking sincerely. Sounds crazy -- but it works wonders.
Stand Up Straight, and Smile:
There's nothing worse than someone giving a toast with his or her hands stuffed in their pockets, looking at the floor with a petrified expression on their face. Instead, while you're practicing, remind yourself to stand up straight, use hand gestures and start off with a big smile to chase away the nervous butterflies.